英语翻译WHETHER you like it or not,your parents are responsible

英语翻译
WHETHER you like it or not,your parents are responsible (负责任的) for you,at least until you’re out of high school.But does it feel like your parents are stressing you out with their love?Do you often fight with them?
Hu Muqing,16,of Shenyang,complains that his parents are only concerned (关心) about his grades and not his other needs.He and his parents fight the most about the time he spends watching TV and on the Internet.
“They think because I’m in high school I should concentrate on my work,” the Shenyang teenager said.
“However,I need to be able to relax.Most of my friends can watch TV and surf the Web a lot.Sometimes it’s hard to talk to them.”
After some negotiations (商谈),Hu has been allowed to watch TV for 15 to 20 minutes every night,but has been told to keep away from the computer.
Since she feels she’s grown up now,Shen Ying,17,wants more respect from her parents.
“My father yells (大叫) at me when he’s in a bad mood (情绪).He doesn’t listen to me,but instead acts like,‘I’m the boss’!” said the teenager from Jianyang,Sichuan province.“I’d like my parents to treat me like a friend and understand that respect is a two-way street.”
Lu Yiting,15,of Shantou,has a different problem with her parents.They think she spends too much time with her friends and is falling into bad company.
“I want trust from my parents,” Lu said.
It’s the age when teenagers are becoming more independent (独立的).But their parents are very concerned about their kids’ futures,said Sun Yunxiao,a senior researcher at the China Youth and Children Research Center.
Sun suggests that teenagers should learn to communicate with their parents effectively (有效地).
“Find the right time for a talk.On Mother’s Day or Father’s Day,say ‘Thank you’ to your parents or give them a small gift with a letter so they can get inside your head a little,” he advised.
Sun also believes that teenagers have to work to earn trust and respect from their parents.
“You need to make sure they know that you’re not going to screw up (搞砸) your exams or let them down.Let them know that you want to do well,and that you will do well,” he said.

无论你是否喜欢,你的父母都会对你负责,至少要直到你离开高中.但你有没有感到你的父母在用爱给你施加压力?你经常与他们争执吗?
Hu Muqing(人名),16岁,来自沈阳,抱怨他的父母只会关心他的成绩而不是他其他的需要.他和父母经常为了看电视和上网时间的多少而起争执.
"他们认为因为我在高中就应该专心于学业."这名沈阳的少年说.
"然而,我需要放松,大多数我的朋友能经常看电视和上网.有时很难去和他们沟通."
在一些商谈后,Hu被允许每晚看电视15到20分钟,但是被告知要远离电脑.
由于她认为自己现在已经长大了.17岁的Shen Ying,想从父母那里获得更多的尊重.
"我的爸爸情绪不好时就对我大叫.他不但不听我说的,反而表现得像‘我才是老大’!”这个从四川省简阳来的少年说,我希望我的父母能像朋友的一样对待我并且能明白尊重是互相的.”
15岁的Lu Yiting来自汕头,和她的父母有着不同的问题.他们认为她花了太多时间和朋友在一起并交了坏朋友.
“我想从我的父母那里获得信任.”Lu说

中国青少年研究中心的高级研究员Sun Yunxiao说,这正是孩子们变得更独立的年纪.但是他们的父母非常担心自己孩子的未来.
Sun建议青少年应该学习如何才能和父母有效地沟通.

“找到正确的谈话时间.在母亲节或者父亲节,对父母说声谢谢或者给他们一个附了信的小礼物这样他们能更懂你一点.”他建议
Sun也相信青少年应该努力从他们的父母那里赢得信任和尊重.
“你需要确定他们懂你不会搞砸你的考试或者令他们失望.让他们知道你想要做得更好,并且你会做得更好.”他说.