作业帮What love is
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What love is
I always wonder what love is and if people around me likes me or not.
I am a beautiful and talented girl and always do well in study,so there always be someone tell me other boys like me.
Some of my classmates always tell me that:"Hey!The boy who sit behind you likes you!"
But I always answer:"Really?But I don't know about that."
I know that I am kind of foolish in LOVE,but sometimes I do think about it.I can't find my Mr.Right and even have no idea about that cause I always refuse to love other boys and refuse other boys to love me.It's kinda strange but I don't know how.
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Here's my story.
I knew an American boy who's 4 years older than me on the Internet.We always talk with each other.My goal was to improve oral English,but actually my oral is not bad.Pure American accent.We talked a lot with each other but only on weekends,cause I have to study on weekdays and I have to deal with my study first.Work always comes first.
Something confused me is that when the American boy saw me was online,and he will be really active and wants to talk with me.I am glad to talk with him too.After we talked for about one month,each time,when we talk with each other,he will always ask me if I have a boy friend or not,and there will always be someone else to ask:"Yes,tell us.Have you had a boyfriend yet?"
"Of course not!I think I'm too young to get a boyfriend now."
And the American boy will always sounds dissapointed,and speak in a very low and weak voice:"Really?Why not have a boyfriend now?"
Once,when we talk alone,he asked me if I want a American boyfriend or not.I didn't know what to say,but said:"Mom always want me to have a foreign boyfriend in the furture.But I don't know.That might be a good idea."And that's the truth.
After that,it always sounds he likes me when he talk with me.Once,when I,the American boy and some other close friends on Internet talk with each other,the American boy just asked:"Do you want to go date with me?"I smiled and answered:"It's sounds nice.But how?We're in different country."
我说这句话其实是半开玩笑的,但也半认真的.
But he just answered:"Oh,that's not a problem,I'll fly to China."
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We have exchanged our picture,he's a good boy.I don't know the detail,but I know something about him from his talk.
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I thought he likes me.And pretty sure about that.Though he didn't say:"I like you."or "I love you."to me.But I can feel some.
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I really don't know how to deal with this feeling.Cause I don't even know he really likes me or not.
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Could you help me?
我需要声明的几点：
第一，我现在年龄还很小
第二，我觉得...应该没有受母亲的影响吧
第三，那个美国男孩其实不是在看到照片后才那么说的......
第四，能解释一下到底什么才是"love"吗？
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还是想声明一下。
我可能比各位回答者的年龄都要小不少。
And that's why Love Or Not To Love really confused me a lot...
I always wonder what love is and if people around me likes me or not.
I am a beautiful and talented girl and always do well in study,so there always be someone tell me other boys like me.
Some of my classmates always tell me that:"Hey!The boy who sit behind you likes you!"
But I always answer:"Really?But I don't know about that."
I know that I am kind of foolish in LOVE,but sometimes I do think about it.I can't find my Mr.Right and even have no idea about that cause I always refuse to love other boys and refuse other boys to love me.It's kinda strange but I don't know how.
-----------
Here's my story.
I knew an American boy who's 4 years older than me on the Internet.We always talk with each other.My goal was to improve oral English,but actually my oral is not bad.Pure American accent.We talked a lot with each other but only on weekends,cause I have to study on weekdays and I have to deal with my study first.Work always comes first.
Something confused me is that when the American boy saw me was online,and he will be really active and wants to talk with me.I am glad to talk with him too.After we talked for about one month,each time,when we talk with each other,he will always ask me if I have a boy friend or not,and there will always be someone else to ask:"Yes,tell us.Have you had a boyfriend yet?"
"Of course not!I think I'm too young to get a boyfriend now."
And the American boy will always sounds dissapointed,and speak in a very low and weak voice:"Really?Why not have a boyfriend now?"
Once,when we talk alone,he asked me if I want a American boyfriend or not.I didn't know what to say,but said:"Mom always want me to have a foreign boyfriend in the furture.But I don't know.That might be a good idea."And that's the truth.
After that,it always sounds he likes me when he talk with me.Once,when I,the American boy and some other close friends on Internet talk with each other,the American boy just asked:"Do you want to go date with me?"I smiled and answered:"It's sounds nice.But how?We're in different country."
我说这句话其实是半开玩笑的,但也半认真的.
But he just answered:"Oh,that's not a problem,I'll fly to China."
-------
We have exchanged our picture,he's a good boy.I don't know the detail,but I know something about him from his talk.
-------
I thought he likes me.And pretty sure about that.Though he didn't say:"I like you."or "I love you."to me.But I can feel some.
-------
I really don't know how to deal with this feeling.Cause I don't even know he really likes me or not.
--------------------
Could you help me?
我需要声明的几点：
第一，我现在年龄还很小
第二，我觉得...应该没有受母亲的影响吧
第三，那个美国男孩其实不是在看到照片后才那么说的......
第四，能解释一下到底什么才是"love"吗？
--------
还是想声明一下。
我可能比各位回答者的年龄都要小不少。
And that's why Love Or Not To Love really confused me a lot...
你是一个优秀的女孩,无论从相貌还是学业.从心理角度分析,绝大多数女人需要一个强过自己的男人,这是你的真命天子还没出现的原因之一.当然,也可能是你跟朋友交往外冷内热,吓跑很多优秀的男孩.其实如果真的交往一段时间,未必不会爱上他.
第二,母亲的影响,你妈妈那句带点希冀的戏言可能长久以来在你心里就起涟漪了,你可能在心底给自己定下了男友的基本条件：外国人,只不过你没有完全意识到而已.
好了,说几个问题.
首先,他是看了你的真人照片（或视频）后才开始变得活跃和主动的,那么,他喜欢你的是什么?八成是美貌吧?而追求美貌的结果是什么呢?one night sex.老美对性很看得开,除了ONS,我想其他比重不会太大.尽管他说要飞过来看你,我估计他可能正巧想到中国旅游一次.比方说,看奥运.
第二,你的目的是什么?ONS还是长久的男女朋友关系,抑或是婚姻作为拿绿卡的跳板?我想你没有谈过男朋友,应该不会仅仅是为最后一个原因吧?想通了自己的目的,该怎么做,就清楚了吧.
第三,你也可以用开玩笑的语气跟你老妈说一下,例如“我可真的准备找个美国男朋友了啊”,看她的反应,之后引上这个话题,之后的事我想你们母女可以讲明白了.
PS：年龄小就更别着急了,谈一段跨国恋也不错,不过还是谨慎为好,有个人想着是很开心满足的感觉.他如果真的过来了,你的父母会同意你陪他出去玩吗?所以,提前告诉他,你来的话,首先,不能向我的父母公开我们的关系；第二,晚上几点之前我必须回家.等等诸如此类.说实话小女孩是很容易骗的,你身边可能缺少把妹达人.
爱是什么呢?
开心的时候,你会觉得整个世界都是你的
难过的时候,走在路上眼泪会自己掉下来
思念的时候,呆坐时而蹙眉时而会心一笑
自己生病的时候,特别希望他坐在床边,拉着你的手
他生病的时候,很着急,却又不知道怎样能帮到他
一起出去玩的时候,只要看着他就很开心
有时想撒娇,就故意气气他,看他生气的样子也很可爱
第二,母亲的影响,你妈妈那句带点希冀的戏言可能长久以来在你心里就起涟漪了,你可能在心底给自己定下了男友的基本条件：外国人,只不过你没有完全意识到而已.
好了,说几个问题.
首先,他是看了你的真人照片（或视频）后才开始变得活跃和主动的,那么,他喜欢你的是什么?八成是美貌吧?而追求美貌的结果是什么呢?one night sex.老美对性很看得开,除了ONS,我想其他比重不会太大.尽管他说要飞过来看你,我估计他可能正巧想到中国旅游一次.比方说,看奥运.
第二,你的目的是什么?ONS还是长久的男女朋友关系,抑或是婚姻作为拿绿卡的跳板?我想你没有谈过男朋友,应该不会仅仅是为最后一个原因吧?想通了自己的目的,该怎么做,就清楚了吧.
第三,你也可以用开玩笑的语气跟你老妈说一下,例如“我可真的准备找个美国男朋友了啊”,看她的反应,之后引上这个话题,之后的事我想你们母女可以讲明白了.
PS：年龄小就更别着急了,谈一段跨国恋也不错,不过还是谨慎为好,有个人想着是很开心满足的感觉.他如果真的过来了,你的父母会同意你陪他出去玩吗?所以,提前告诉他,你来的话,首先,不能向我的父母公开我们的关系；第二,晚上几点之前我必须回家.等等诸如此类.说实话小女孩是很容易骗的,你身边可能缺少把妹达人.
爱是什么呢?
开心的时候,你会觉得整个世界都是你的
难过的时候,走在路上眼泪会自己掉下来
思念的时候,呆坐时而蹙眉时而会心一笑
自己生病的时候,特别希望他坐在床边,拉着你的手
他生病的时候,很着急,却又不知道怎样能帮到他
一起出去玩的时候,只要看着他就很开心
有时想撒娇,就故意气气他,看他生气的样子也很可爱